Emma's Progress - 6 months on..........

When we began Emma's NACD neurodevelopmental program in July, I planned to blog once a month. Little did I know that with the demands of the program I would struggle find time to eat let alone sit down at the computer to write. 

So...better late than never! 

Emma is making progress but admittedly, at a slower pace than I would like. But I am also (slowly) learning to celebrate the 'little things' and find joy even in the darkest moments.

There is so much more to this 'program' than the work and learning. I feel like everyday I go into battle for Emma. It's not easy. It's not always fun. But the hope that we will 'win' this battle is what keeps us moving forward. 

Emma's Progress

Significant improvements in muscle tone 

Since beginning the deep pressure and movement exercises as part of her program Emma is no longer floppy AT ALL and noticeably stronger. 

Significant improvements in motor planning / coordination / balance

Emma used to fall over constantly. She would walk into things, trip over things but not anymore! She now has good body awareness and is significantly more confident with climbing, playing on the playground and can now carry things without toppling over. She has started trying to stand on one leg and often tries to imitate dance moves she sees when watching music videos. 

Just this week she jumped for the first time (using 2 feet) on the trampoline! 

Improvements in receptive language

After feeling like she was never going to get it, Emma has begun processing 2 pieces of information. She is also able to recognize over 100 flashcards whereas before we started the program I was unsure of how many pictures / objects she recognized if any.

Improvements in auditory processing

We are finding Emma is responding more consistently to requests and is processing information quicker.

She hears everything without her hearing aids and often tells me if she 'hears' something by looking at me and putting her hands near her ears. This morning as we did our running she did this when she heard a dog bark in the distance. 6 months ago she wouldn't have been as 'tuned' in to hear the sounds around her.

Improvements in social Skills 

After starting the GAPS diet in October we began noticing improvements in her social skills particularly her ability to interact with other kids. Adults are mostly kind and patient but generally young kids are not so it is very difficult for a child like Emma to engage in meaningful interactions with other kids. But now she is initiating social interactions and is able to 'maintain' interaction for a short period of time. She used to engage for 10 seconds and then wander off on her own but we are now noticing she is identifying kids her own age, approaching them and engaging happily in parallel play with the odd moment of co-operative play. 

We also recently saw our first glimpse of 'compassion' where she realised she'd (accidentally) hurt another child and cried along with the hurt child before putting her arm around him as if to say 'sorry'. Gold. 

All of these areas still need work but we celebrate her progress! 

How I manage the program.....

It only took me about 2 days to realise I couldn't do this program on my own.

We now have 3 amazing volunteers who come weekly to help with Emma in various ways depending on their experience and expertise. Their willingness to give of their time to help our family is actually what gives me strength on those dark days. These volunteers help remind me that even when the world seems harsh and unfair there is still goodness.

I admit we still struggle to get all the 'program' done 7 days a week. We are finding that as Emma moves through stages in her development she is becoming more like a 'toddler' and less like a 'baby'. This means meltdowns, tantrums and defiance and boy, is that girl stubborn. There are some days where it takes more like 3 hours to get program done.

We are praying that 2017 will be a year of continued growth and development for Emma but feel we need a miracle when it comes to her speech. So friends, I ask you to join us as a family in praying that our precious girl will find her voice in 2017 and we will be sure to give God the glory for his power at work in Emma's life.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart all for your kind words, prayers and encouragement in 2016. I am truly thankful. 

Happy New Year everyone! xo 

4 weeks on - Celebrating each little step forward

This week we went to the park. 

I watched Emma run and explore and felt like I was looking at a new child. 

Tears sprung to my eyes as I experienced a deep sense of joy and thankfulness.

We are 4 weeks into our NACD neuroplasticity program.

The program takes 3 hours daily to complete and should be completed 7 days a week. I can only manage 6 days and some days struggle to get the full 3 hours done. We are managing about 80% of the total program with the goal of getting to 100% next month. 

She has a long way to go but the changes are remarkable. 

Her muscle tone and strength are noticeably improving and she is more aware of her body thanks to the frequent deep pressure input. She is running faster and moving without as much hesitation. I also noticed her hands are hanging lower when she walks as opposed to her 'dinosaur arms'.

Amazingly she has gained 3kg with no changes to diet / exercise.  At first I was concerned until I realised that it's because her (low tone) jelly fish arms and legs are gaining muscle! 

There's a brightness in her eyes. 

She is starting to notice everything.  She responded to plane flying overhead, the sound of the train in the distance, a bird sitting on a branch and distant dog barking (all without her hearing aids). At one stage she took my hand and led me to a tree to show me and then pointed upwards like she was explaining to me that it was really tall.

This kid is excited about life and the world around her.

We've seen positive changes in her listening and responding (auditory processing) particularly her ability to imitate sounds and words. She has surprised us with lots of new words at random times like "Aunty Trace" and "Roof". They don't always 'stick' but we celebrate each new sound or word as she gets one step closer to normal speech. 

Other changes we've initiated as well as the program have been increasing her dose of fish oil and making sure she has at least one hour a day of active play outside. We have also taken youtube off her ipad so she is only able to watch 'therapeutic' (homemade) videos which are designed to help feed her more language, useful directions and self-help skills. It's all about intensity - we are using every opportunity to help her learn and develop.

Emma has now adjusted to the new routine and knows what to expect during 'learning time' but we are dealing with some mammoth tantrums and defiant behavior which we were told to expect as she begins to make steps developmentally. 

We are celebrating every little achievement however small as it brings us one step closer to our destination. 

The journey is hard - but we're moving in the right direction.

Be encouraged xo